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Let’s Outlaw Mistletoe

by Linda Henman
October 27, 2015
in Uncategorized
Let’s Outlaw Mistletoe

Last month Syracuse University decided to pull its “kiss cam” after fan Steve Port wrote to complain that the common staple at sports venues “sends the wrong message at a time when colleges are fighting against sexual assault.” He claims he was just “out to raise an important issue.” That’s all it took, one fan with one agenda item that led to the university banning a fixture at sporting events that no one, including Port, claims ever led to bad manners, much less criminal activity.

Decision makers at Syracuse sparked outrage that we can only partially blame on Port. When they decided to remove the kiss cam, they echoed the song we have heard too many times, “Let’s limit everyone’s enjoyment or comfort because maybe, possibly, someday, someone may get hurt or have hurt feelings.”

We see it in the safety measures at the airport, desperately and continuously attempting to assure people that somehow taking off shoes will stop someone bent on terrorism. We see it in the schools where zero tolerance of sexual assault means zero judgment when decision makers expel a kindergartner for kissing a girl. We saw it this month at the University of Missouri when decision makers decided all freshmen must take diversity training after a few reprobates shouted racial slurs from a moving truck. The university sees this as a costly but sure-fire approach for ending, once and for all, racism and hatred at the university. And we see it in business with more regulations and stupid rules—policies applied to the many but designed to change the behavior of the few, polices that have no relation to or hope of eradicating the bad behavior.

When one person cheats on an expense account, abuses sick days or generally skirts responsibilities, a new policy appears. We willingly punish 100 innocents to neutralize one troublemaker—never considering the loss of freedom to the innocents.

Only when we stop majoring in the minors and responding to every malcontent with an agenda can we hope to improve our culture and our companies. Good people want freedom and will seek situations that allow them to enjoy them. We don’t need to outlaw mistletoe to ensure we won’t have sexual assaults any more than we need to enact endless protocols and rules to keep these good people in line. Hire ethical people and then treat them like adults. Show good judgment and demand it in return. If you do that, you won’t need a three-ring binder for your employee handbook. Just write the two words my mother said every day of my life: “Behave yourself.”


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Dr. Linda Henman is one of those rare experts who can say she’s a coach, consultant, speaker, and author. For more than 30 years, she has worked with Fortune 500 Companies and small businesses that want to think strategically, grow dramatically, promote intelligently, and compete successfully today and tomorrow. Some of her clients include Emerson Electric, Boeing, Avon and Tyson Foods. She was one of eight experts who worked directly with John Tyson after his company’s acquisition of International Beef Products, one of the most successful acquisitions of the twentieth century. Linda holds a Ph.D. in organizational systems and two Master of Arts degrees in both interpersonal communication and organization development and a Bachelor of Science degree in communication. Whether coaching executives or members of the board, Linda offers clients coaching and consulting solutions that are pragmatic in their approach and sound in their foundation—all designed to create exceptional organizations. She is the author of Landing in the Executive Chair: How to Excel in the Hot Seat, The Magnetic Boss: How to Become the Leader No One Wants to Leave, and contributing editor and author to Small Group Communication, among other works. Dr. Henman can be reached at linda@henmanperformancegroup.com.

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